Orgasms make him laugh
QUESTION:
I am a 25-year-old woman who has been dating a 40-year-old man for 7 months. The last three times we had sexual relations, he started laughing uncontrollably when he reached orgasm and couldn't stop for 5 minutes! At first I almost killed him but then he explained to me that it has happened to him with only 2 other women. Can you tell me why this happens?
ANSWER:
There probably is an answer to this, laying somewhere within the tremendous changes in blood chemistry and overall physiology at the point of orgasm, but I don't know it. I do know that he is not alone in this (although it is certainly infrequent among men and women). Another response is that of crying. My explanation is simplistic. I feel that it has something to do with the explosive release of intense emotion. Beyond that, I'm stumped. At least it is good that he is expressing a happy emotion and is not laughing at you.
Bob Birch
Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.For more information visit: http://www.oralcaress.com/