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Hey there, first of all STOP CALLING ME A HO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyway, that Dr. thing could not be further from my mind!!!!!! Ray and I have always contemplated why so many ob-gyn dr.'s are always male. I mean, other than the obvious, what other reason could there be? Kind of creepy really!! Of all the ob-gyn doc's I've ever had, and trust me, I've seen a few! I have only ever had one female one! Dirty b*****ds!!!! Mind you, I bet they get a shock when they realise that it aint all glamour!! It's mostly blood and gunk!!! Yep, my baby will be entering double figures on monday age-wise!! I cant beleive it, it really makes me wonder where all that time goes! You must feel ancient!!!!!! I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving by the way, I wish we had Thanksgiving over here, it always looks so nice on the movies and tv!! Mind you, I have more than enough family drama to contend with with Christmas let alone another festivity!!! I called my sister last night, and got informed that yet again mom and dave were trying to wrangle an invite, I told her to get that idea right out of her head this year! Ray would kill me! He doesn't want to do christmas at all this year, he can only just cope with my two sisters let alone the two of them aswell! I told her he would literally kill me if I even suggested it to him! Not only that, but I cant afford it financially this year, I cant accomodate them all with the house in the state it is, I am not feeling up to it with all my tummy troubles, I just don't think any of them understand how unfair they are being by putting me in that position. I tell you, if it weren't for the kids, we wouldn't even be having a big deal this christmas at all. I don't care if I sound mean, I've hosted christmas for my sisters every year since I left home, my mom chose to spend hers with dave and his kids for each one of those years, well now his kids have left home and have families ofg their own, they feel like I'm the second option and that they can just tag onto us! Well no! I wish I'd never phoned her as now ~I know I have to avoid my moms calls for a while too! Do you think I'm being mean? Ray really wont allow them to come, do you think that is fair? I know that I have to say no, I just dont want to be put in this horrible postion all the time, I wish they'd have the sense to think, "Oh we'll give Helen a break". I don't want them in my life, the kids hate him, we hate him, he hates us, why does my mother insist on inflicting him on us? Why don't they go and annoy his kids or just go on acruise or something? Or go and visit my grandmother who is housebound and they haven't gone to see for years!!!!! Her own mother!!! Why is it always me? Well, I'd better go and get on with my day now. I'm not sure what I am supposed to be doingtoday, I cant do anything strenuous today though as I've been having alot of pain since yesterday and I'm doped up on the drugs the dr. gave me. Ever since I had that scan, the pain has been really severe, I think the magnetic pull or whatever has moved my insides around or something. Well, I'm off. I'll see you later. love helen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hello Hoellen, I can also see the down side of being ob-gyn too. My sign would say I specialize in the young and innocent. Anyway I guess we have exasperated that subject. On your comment that I must feel ancient with my kids ages. Quite to the contrary the make me feel younger as a few of my old classmates have 35 year olds. I got started late. I don't hang around any old classmates as the look ancient. I'm glad I was always immature for my age and have genes going for me as some of my young friends(late 30 early 40's)could pass for my upper classmates if I say so myself. I got carded by a young girl at Walmart the other day buying beer and she said they had to card everyone under 40 which made me feel good. Usually kids can guess age better than adults can. I know she couldn't have been more than 20. All you have to tell your mom is the truth. Tell her with the move money is short, you have an up and coming operation and if that doesn't work tell her that her mom can't live much longer and maybe it is time to give her a visit for Christmas. If that fails tell her everyone in the house hates her man and that you won't put them through it this year as y'all need a break. Maybe the truth is what's called for here. Our swimming pool friends have the same problem. All the siblings and parents want to come to their house all the time because everything is free and that way their homes don't get messed up. They were complaining about it also just the other day. When I was at lunch yesterday a man sitting at the table next to me had a heart attack. He had two nieces about my age with him and were holding him upright in his chair as he had slumped over and they thought he just fainted. I told them I believed he was having a heart attack. There were about 50 people in the restaurant and since the women with him were in a stupor or shocked state I had to take charge. I went to the middle of the restaurant and told everyone we had an emergency situation and needed a regular aspirin not a Tylenol or ibuprofen or such. No one in the whole restaurant had one, but a lady finally remembered she had one in her car. The man had gone unconscious and stopped breathing right as we stuck a crushed one under his tongue. Right away his breathing started coming back gradually thank God as I figured I was about 30 seconds away from giving this old man CPR. Then someone in the restaurant said we should lay him down to which I said no leave him sitting upright as I knew I had read that before in things to do during heart attacks. I was glad that by the time the ambulance had gotten there he was breathing way better and come back into a semi conscious state. I was glad the ambulance people before they put him on the rolling gurney made it into a chair position confirming I was right about not lying down. Aspirin is a wonder drug and everyone should keep it in the home and women in their purse for just this occasion. I'm sure it saved his life as the ambulance would have gotten there about 15 minutes after his breathing stopped. CPR stats are really pretty dismal in heart attack cases and work best on drowning victims if caught early enough. You should have seen all the full plates of food. It kind of took everyone's appetite away. I am wondering today how the man is doing or if he is still alive. I know he was at least stable as the ambulance people thought he was good to go and weren't excited or anything. I guarantee you had they seen him 15 minutes earlier they would have been in super fast gear to get him to the emergency room. I posted on facebook yesterday a link to advice on what to do during heart attacks. I believe about 3:PM. Read it! I've gotta go to prison pretty quick. I will be by myself tonight and hope it doesn't go until 10:PM like last time. Well I hope your pain is better and that tomorrow will bring you a bunch of relief. Later. Love, clay
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Ray and I have always contemplated why so many ob-gyn dr.'s are always male. I mean, other than the obvious, what other reason could there be? 
Kind of creepy really!! Of all the ob-gyn doc's I've ever had, and trust me, I've seen a few! I have only ever had one female one! 
I wish I'd never phoned her as now ~I know I have to avoid my moms calls for a while too! 
Do you think I'm being mean? Ray really wont allow them to come, do you think that is fair? I know that I have to say no, I just dont want to be put in this horrible postion all the time, I wish they'd have the sense to think, "Oh we'll give Helen a break". I don't want them in my life, the kids hate him, we hate him, he hates us, why does my mother insist on inflicting him on us? Why don't they go and annoy his kids or just go on acruise or something? Or go and visit my grandmother who is housebound and they haven't gone to see for years!!!!! Her own mother!!! Why is it always me? 
Anyway I guess we have exasperated that subject. 
I've gotta go to prison pretty quick. I will be by myself tonight and hope it doesn't go until 10:PM like last time. 