Mystery pee


Mystery pee


your avatar   Patti (37 year-old woman)

I have just recently began to experience orgasms, and I am not sure whether I am peeing or having female ejaculation. I'm wondering if it is normal to experience such matters and/or actually pee during orgasm.


    Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., ACS Certified Sexologist

It is not common, but it is not abnormal for women to ejaculate a clear fluid though their urethral opening when they orgasm. The best nonscientific way to determine what your fluid is would be to smell it! If it smells like pee, it is. The female ejaculate is odor-free. If you do not feel like you had a full bladder before becoming aroused, or if you had just recently urinated, chances are you are a female ejaculator... unique but not unusual!

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.For more information visit:


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