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Oral sex virgin

QUESTION:

your avatar   Cookie (18 year-old woman)

I am engaged to be married. Both he and I are virgins. We both plan on staying virgins until the wedding night. However, I gave him oral sex for the first time. Due to my inexperience, I am not all that sure I did a good job.

How can I be sure to give him the most pleasure possible from our oral sex?

ANSWER:

    Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., ACS Certified Sexologist

I have a very easy answer: ASK HIM!

The ingredient you must add (if you really do enjoy it) is to show your enthusiasm! If you learn all the mechanical tricks but are just doing it for him, it will not be nearly as good as when you are simply enjoying what you are doing and showing it.

Don't worry about technique. Explore what you find pleasurable and ask him for feedback and suggestions.

Bob Birch

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.For more information visit: http://www.oralcaress.com/

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