Hello, I am a 43-year-old female, who has a high sex drive. My question is when I have orgasms, which I do have a lot of them, I get myself and my mate, and the bed totally drenched. If I get on my knees and elbows and my mate plays with my clit I can actually see a stream of liquid. If I lay on my back and he does the same, I can see a stream of liquid shooting up. What is this liquid? My fiance thinks I am peeing, but I don't think I am. It doesn't smell like it. He really enjoys when I do this, sometimes I get a little embarrassed. It does feel real good when it happens though. Can you please tell me what this liquid is?
Congratulations, you are what is known as a "female ejaculator." Your partner is wrong... this is not urine, although this clear watery fluid is spurting from your urethral opening. You are not the first woman to do a very natural thing... smell or taste it. There is a lot of debate about where this fluid actually comes from and it was originally associated with G Spot stimulation. We now know it can happen with some women (a small percentage I should add) with whatever stimulation it is that brings her to orgasm. It is very natural for this unique population to which you belong and to try to inhibit it would interfere with having intense orgasms. Rubber sheets and lots of towels become accessories to passionate lovemaking and once men understand what is happening, they love seeing this watery evidence of a woman's explosive orgasm.
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