Masturbating habits

 

Masturbating habits

QUESTION:

your avatar   Lola, 29-year-old woman

Whenever I get horny, I am addicted to watching myself masturbate in the mirror. It could be a hand held mirror, or a full-length mirror. I have done this for years, and it never fails me.

Why do I enjoy looking at myself masturbate in the mirror so much?

ANSWER:

    Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., ACS Certified Sexologist

People tend to get "hooked" on sexual turn-ons they developed in the early exploration of their sexuality. You no doubt started watching yourself when your adolescent sex drive was very strong, your curiosity very intense and long before you had any partners. Some might classify this as narcissistic behavior, but it is probably just a habit. I would worry if it has become the only way you can orgasm or if it has become a substitute for finding satisfaction with a partner. Sexual habits become problems when they become a requirement!

Bob Birch

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.For more information visit: http://www.oralcaress.com/

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