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August 21, 2018 - Welcome Guest!

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Oral sex and nothing else

Question:

My husband has lost interest in normal sex and is only interested in oral sex performed on him. If I request normal sex he will disagree and won't do it. So what is happening to him?

MP (25 year-old woman) from Singapore

Answer:

It is hard to understand fully why a man would stop having vaginal intercourse and insist only on receiving fellatio. Oral sex is, of course, natural and "normal", but if it is one sided, it is selfish, and it does not provide the sense of physical and emotional bonding provided by intercourse.

I suppose that as long as you provide oral sex, your husband will not change. You might want to reconsider how you respond to his demands.

Bob Birch

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.

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