Gay/Bi-sexual boyfriend?

Gay/Bi-sexual boyfriend?


your avatar   Vanessa, 19-year-old woman

My boyfriend has recently been asking me to perform anal sex on him. We enjoy a healthy sex life, and he enjoys giving me anal pleasure. He would now like me to experiment on him (i.e. fingering, rimming, stroking etc.). Does this make him gay or bi-sexual in any way?


    Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., ACS Certified Sexologist

No, if a man enjoys receiving anal stimulation or prostate massage this has nothing at all to do with his sexual orientation.

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.For more information visit:

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