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November 18, 2018 - Welcome Guest!

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Size Issues


I have been sexually active for 6 years and have had multiple partners (but no STDs). In terms of size, I've been with men with both large and small penises.

I have a new partner and he's probably larger than any other guy I've been with. I've had large, but none of them have caused this: When I am on top, It seems that I urinate on him, but I am not having an orgasm. I can't tell if it's urine or not, but there is so much water-like liquid. I'm wondering if he's hitting my bladder? This has never happened before! Is it possible that this liquid is coming out of my vaginal tract or other places?

Megan, 20 year old woman


The best way to find out if it is urine or not is to smell it!

It is not likely that something watery is coming out of your vagina, so it is coming out of your urethra. It seems unlikely that you are a female ejaculator, since you say it comes out without a feeling of orgasm.

I suppose that if you like being on top, he does not mind being peed on (or whatever), and there are towels under him, there is really nothing to worry about. As long as you are not in pain and everyone is having fun, let the rain come.

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.

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