Masturbation questions

Masturbation questions


your avatar   Julie (18 year-old woman)

I don't think I've ever really masturbated before...And I'd like to try. What are some things I could use at home and is it dangerous?


    Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., ACS Certified Sexologist

The best way to introduce yourself to self-pleasuring is to simply use your fingers to stimulate around your clitoris. The first tasks are to learn to be comfortable touching yourself and then to learn your most sensitive areas and how your body is going to respond. Don't worry about getting fancy right now... you can learn about vibrators and dildos later on if you wish. Just start with the basics and enjoy your body.

Bob Birch

Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., is a retired sex therapist, now identifying himself as a sexologist and adult sexuality educator. He now devotes his time to writing educational and self-help books for adults.For more information visit:

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