
Personal Development
Three unconventional ways to boost your self-esteem
by Queen D, July 27, 2015
#1: Role-play—with yourself. Set up a chair next to your couch, like you’re sitting in Freud’s living room. Lie down on the couch and tell the chair everything that’s been bothering you. Pressures at work, difficult relationship with your in-laws, lack of romance between you and your partner, your concerns that your child’s part-time job […]

Personal Development
Success Stumbles: What’s Tripping You Up?
by Queen D, January 7, 2015
It’s inevitable. I’ll be watching the finals in an Olympic event and there will always be that one athlete who, on the brink of getting a medal, will suddenly stumble (literally and figuratively). In their tearful post-interview, they’ll say something along the lines of, “I don’t know what happened. I guess it just wasn’t mean to […]

Personal Development
I want my own Mr. Miyagi: Life lessons learned from my fictional guru
by Queen D, August 28, 2014
I watched The Karate Kid movies in the late 90’s, years after they originally came out (the one’s with Ralph Macchio and Pat Morita, not the remakes). I didn’t grasp much of what the trilogy was trying to teach me because my young mind was too busy thinking about how cute Daniel LaRusso was. I […]

Personal Development
Just because your head says so, doesn’t make it true: Self-limiting beliefs that are holding you back
by Queen D, August 12, 2014
Before I parallel park, an ugly green gremlin that kind of looks like my driving teacher from years ago makes an appearance in my passenger seat. The jerk doesn’t even buckle up; he just sits there and openly mocks me. So you’re trying to park huh? *snicker* Oh this is going to be gooood! Let’s […]