Love & Relationships

Forging Through The Lockdown – Part 15: Jedi Mindfulness

by Queen D, July 8, 2020

I am not a fan of Star Wars, but it’s filled with life lessons I think we can all live by. And I can fully appreciate the concept of using the mind to achieve strength, courage, centeredness, and tranquility. “Your focus determines your reality.” Qui-Gon Jinn “A Jedi must have the deepest commitment, the most […]

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Forging Through The Lockdown – Part 12: Parenting young children during the pandemic

by Queen D, May 28, 2020

My 4-year-old nephew is a proficient FaceTime user, although he seems to forget that I can see him, even when he’s picking his nose. He’s been giving me weekly updates about all the things he’s learned (his numbers and colors in English, French, and Italian), all the projects his done, including making Easter eggs, bread, […]

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Forging Through The Lockdown – Part 11: What to do when you’re feeling frustrated, bored, sad, or anxious

by Queen D, May 13, 2020

May is Mental Health Awareness month. With most of us stuck indoors, isolation will start to take a psychological toll. This is probably less of an issue for introverts like myself, but I sometimes feel compelled to go outside, if only to break the monotony a little. Frankly, my biggest concern is that spending so […]

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Forging Through The Lockdown – Part 10: Practicing Patience

by Queen D, May 6, 2020

Life is a constant test of patience. From traffic, to annoying people, to waiting, waiting, waiting for something you want. If you lack patience, if you don’t allow things to unfold, if you don’t learn to give things a chance, if you don’t compel yourself to stop, breathe, and think, you can lose out on […]

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Fathering: It’s not tough love, it’s tough AND loving

by Queen D, June 20, 2019

Sitcoms are not the ideal source of fatherly examples, but if you search for a list of the best TV dads, you’ll see a bunch of often goofy fathers who seem to screw up just as much as their kids. What you’ll also see, however, is that these dads (well, some of them at least) […]

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Tomboy Woman, Rebel Mom: Parenting differences between traditional and modern moms

by Queen D, May 17, 2019

As a child (and to this day), I’d rank my “girly-ness” at a 5. I played with Barbie, had a tea set, and read a lot of girl-oriented book series. I will also confess that I still thoroughly enjoy getting my nails done and can rock a pair of stilettos. But that’s as far as […]

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Cupid hath spoken! A sample of Queendom’s best love & sex polls

by Queen D, February 12, 2019

Beauty may be subjective, but love is universal. The thrill of the chase, love at first sight, and tearful break-ups are not limited to cheesy plots in Rom-Coms or romance novels with rugged pirates on the cover. All over the globe, there are people who have found love, are looking for “the one,” or picking […]

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“Single & Happy” is not an oxymoron

by Queen D, February 7, 2018

“It’s that time of year again,” I said to a friend as we strolled through a department store filled with pink hearts, giant teddy bears, and so much chocolate I honestly felt a little nauseous. “It even smells pink and red. Can you smell colors?” She laughed. “Another holiday that’s been commercialized to death. Just […]

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Popularity and likeability start from within

by Queen D, January 25, 2018

I can almost always predict the results of the studies we conduct at Queendom before we actually conduct them. Years of researching human behavior has given me keen insight on our nature – what motivates us, what we value, what peeves us off. But our latest study on the role of emotional intelligence on popularity […]

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The Ties That Bind or Break: Characteristics of attachments styles

by Queen D, November 17, 2017

I was lying in bed one morning, half-listening to a tech guy on the radio talking about his choice for phone app of the week, when he mentioned something interesting: Facebook automatically filters messages from people with whom you are not friends. “You may have TONS of secret messages that never ended up in your […]

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How family support affects ambition

by Queen D, May 12, 2017

I’m not one of those people who eat up celebrity gossip magazines like fries. The only time I even glance at one is when I’m waiting in line at the grocery store, and only because they’re so conveniently located near the cash register – and because the headlines honestly make me giggle. I do, however, […]

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Jealousy: From the inside out

by Queen D, April 7, 2017

In a champagne induced epiphany, my friend decided that it was time to end her single-hood and join a dating website. I listened in as she filled out the profile questionnaire, although mostly because she insisted on reading each question out loud. Having been one of the authors of Queendom’s “Matchscale” questionnaire (currently being used […]

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