
Personal Development
How to Be Assertive Without Being Rude: 10 Tips That Work
by Queen D, May 7, 2025
Dealing with pushy salespeople, difficult coworkers, or everyday drama can test your patience. Luckily, I’ve got a few assertiveness tricks that actually work.

Personal Development
How to Be More Self-Aware—and Why It Can Change Your Life
by Queen D, September 6, 2024
You can’t grow if you don’t know. Self-awareness means noticing your patterns, owning your triggers, and catching yourself before you say “I’m fine” when you’re clearly not.

Personal Development
Why Some People Can’t Accept Compliments
by Queen D, March 4, 2020
Everyone loves compliments, right? If you deflect praise, downplay it, or assume someone is just trying to get on your good side, it might be a sign of something deeper.

Personal Development
Don’t react well to failure? Blame your parents (a little)
by Queen D, March 28, 2018
Your childhood plays a part in how you handle failure. If mom swooped in to “fix” everything or dad just stood there disappointed, you never learned to manage failure.

Personal Development
5 Subtle Red Flags Your Emotional Intelligence Needs a Tune-Up
by Queen D, March 31, 2017
How do you handle rejection? Are you a hardcore pessimist? Some signs of low EQ stand out—but others are subtle enough to pass as quirks.

Personal Development
Golden Nuggets of Wisdom: Advice for almost any situation
by Queen D, March 17, 2017
After 25+ years of studying human behavior, we’ve learned a thing or two. If you’re into honest, slightly sassy life advice backed by psychology, this blog is definitely for you.

Personal Development
Optimism advice from an optimistic pessimist
by Queen D, November 18, 2016
Being positve all the time isn’t easy—in fact, it’s pretty much impossible. Fortunately, you don’t have to be a smiley-face sticker in human form. It’s about balance, not bliss.

Personal Development
When “Good” Advice Goes Bad: Words of Wisdom Gone Wrong
by Queen D, July 28, 2016
Don’t you love it when people give you truly useless advice—like, “If you don’t want to be depressed, just be happy!” In this blog, I unpack some of the worst “wisdom” I’ve ever heard. It’s so bad, it almost feels like rage-bait.

Personal Development
Social Faux Pas You Didn’t Know You’re Making
by Queen D, January 20, 2016
You might think you’re being friendly, helpful, or just honest—but some habits quietly cross the line. These are the social faux pas worth rethinking.

Personal Development
Why a Little Selfishness Is Actually Good for You
by Queen D, December 16, 2015
We treat selfishness like a sin—but what if a little self-priority is healthy? Ignore the guilt. There’s data showing putting your needs first sometimes isn’t the same as being heartless.

Personal Development
Fun Psychology: Hilarious Signs It’s Time to Change Therapists
by Queen D, September 11, 2015
This post is not real advice—unless it accidentally is. We’re just having some fun with the weird stuff that sometimes happens in therapy.

Personal Development
Self-Limiting Beliefs That Are Holding You Back
by Queen D, August 12, 2014
Thoughts that start with “I’ll never be…” or “I can’t…” are not truths—they’re self-limiting beliefs. Here’s how to push past them.